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Wilder, Lucy Mabel

Wilder, Lucy Mabel

Female 1922 - 2024  (101 years)


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  • Name Wilder, Lucy Mabel 
    Lucy Mabel (Wilder) Crown Helm (1922-2024)
    Birth 14 Dec 1922  Knobel, Clay County, Arkansas Find all individuals with events at this location  [1, 2
    Gender Female 
    Reference Number WILD.L002 
    Death 2 Feb 2024  Clay County Hospital, Flora, Clay County, Illinois Find all individuals with events at this location  [1
    Person ID I10213  Carl Wayne Gray Research
    Last Modified 12 Jan 2025 

    Father Wilder, Ralph Shirley,   b. 5 Sep 1900, Knobel, Clay County, Arkansas Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 3 Mar 1968, Saint Bernards Hospital, Jonesboro, Craighead County, Arkansas Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 67 years) 
    Mother Summers, Anna Elizabeth,   b. 3 Jun 1904, Lawrenceville, Lawrence County, Illinois Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 29 May 1987, Paragould, Greene County, Arkansas Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 82 years) 
    Family ID F852  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family 1 Crown, David Raley,   b. 16 Mar 1920, Delaplaine, Greene County, Arkansas Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 21 Aug 2014, Lawrenceville, Lawrence County, Illinois Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 94 years) 
    Marriage 18 Oct 1953 
    Children 
    >1. CROWN, J.
    +2. CROWN, Davetta Ann,   b. 25 Oct 1939, Knobel, Clay County, Arkansas Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 8 Mar 2021, Memorial Medical Center, Springfield, Sangamon County, Illinois Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 81 years)
     3. Crown, Lanny Ross,   b. 17 Feb 1941   d. 25 Nov 2011, Odyssey House Hospice, Conroe, Montgomery County, Texas Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 70 years)
    >4. Crown, R.D.
    Family ID F4951  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 31 Jan 2023 

    Family 2 HELM, John   d. 15 Oct 2005 
    Marriage 21 Dec 1968  [3, 4
    Family ID F4950  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 31 Jan 2023 

  • Event Map
    Link to Google MapsBirth - 14 Dec 1922 - Knobel, Clay County, Arkansas Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsDeath - 2 Feb 2024 - Clay County Hospital, Flora, Clay County, Illinois Link to Google Earth
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  • Notes 
    • Lucy Mabel Helm, age 101, of Flora, Illinois, and formerly of Olney and Clay City, passed away peacefully on the afternoon of Friday, February 2, 2024, at Clay County Hospital.

      Born December 14, 1922, in Knobel, Arkansas, she was the cherished daughter of Ralph Shirley Wilder and Anna Elizabeth (Summers) Wilder. Lucy's life was joined in marriage with Dr. John Edmund Helm Sr. on July 26, 1974. Their union, marked by love and companionship, lasted 31 years until his passing on October 15, 2005.

      Affectionately known as “Granny” to her family, Lucy was celebrated for her spirited and resilient nature. She was a champion of kindness, always ensuring fairness and care for those around her. Cooking was not just a hobby but her way of expressing love, teaching four generations the art of home cooking. Her renowned specialties, especially her delicious fudge, Christmas candies, and sour cream coffee cake, became staples at the family table. She was happiest when she could share them with others and was proudest whenever someone requested her recipes. Up until transitioning from her home in 2018 at the remarkable age of 94, Lucy continued the cherished tradition of hosting Sunday dinners for her family.

      Lucy's passions extended beyond the kitchen. She found joy in gardening, lovingly tending to her flowers, and was an avid reader, finishing her latest book just a few months ago. Professionally, she was an integral part of her husband’s ophthalmology practice at the Weber Medical Clinic in Olney, offering her support and assistance until his retirement in 1981. Their retirement years were spent enjoying being together. They were truly soulmates and shared their love with their grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

      She is survived by her grandchildren: Cathy (Bill) Croy, Kevin (Tasha) Crown, and Melissa Leonberger; great-grandchildren: Adam (Lindsey) Croy, Jill (Nathan) Vock, Vanessa (Dustin) Pastrovich, Tyson Crown, Maddie Crown, and soon expected baby boy Crown; great-great-grandchildren: Reiston and Griffin Croy, Kennedy Davis, Sophia and Liam Vock, and Phoebe and Ben Pastrovich; son-in-law: Loren Dunigan; and daughter-in-law: Adele Crown.

      She was preceded in death by her parents; her husband; children: Davetta Dunigan, Lanny Crown, and Ralph Crown; a great-great-grandson: Parker; and siblings: Howard S. Wilder, Violet Leatha Wilder, Arthur R. Wilder, Bertha Jane Wilder Johns, Bessie Wilder Cooper, and Edward Earl Wilder.

      A graveside memorial ceremony will be held at 10 a.m. on Friday, June 21, 2024, at Crest Haven Memorial Park in Claremont. Those who wish to attend are asked to arrive directly at the cemetery. Arrangements are by Frank & Bright Funeral Home in Flora. Memorial donations are suggested to Friends of the Flora Public Library, and these will be accepted through the funeral home.

  • Sources 
    1. [S16016] (Reliability: 2).

    2. [S2701] http://findagrave.com, Headstone, Wilder, Angeline and John E., (https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/21659396/john-everett-wilder), none.

    3. [S210] Maglone, Barbara Jean (Mears), Maglone Gedcom, (Maglone, Barbara Jean (Mears), "Maglone,", 23 March 2001., . Revised 05 May 2006), none. (Reliability: 2).

    4. [S1098] Edna Meadows, Descendants of Isabel Clark Maglone, (Prepared by Edna Meadows prior to 2000, received by mail from Joseph Wilson, 22 April 2006), none.